Monday, December 6, 2010

Life In Nepal for a new mother and child

Bina fascinated by music emitting from a speaker
The Evidence of Bina's life we are required to submit 
The day I signed my adoption decree and Bina came to live with me at the hotel, she spiked a temperature of 104 degrees.  I put Bina in the bathtub to cool her down and within a few moments realized the water filling the tub was brown from God only knows what types of contaminates.  This is everyday life in Nepal. The water can kill you here.   Constantly there are situations we find ourselves in that are not only foreign to an American Citizen but bordering on surreal and at times extremely dangerous for our health not to mention my sanity.  Don't ask how a germophobe like me can live here for months.

I pulled Bina out of the tub and we figured out how to make our first emergency visit to the CIWEC Medical Clinic here in Kathmandu.  It was raining, taxi's are scarce when it rains here. I'd been in Nepal for less than 1 week and I had to get us emergent medical care in the middle of the night.  We made it there.  The doctor was amazing and that was night one with my daughter and the start of medical bills and doctor visits for both of us that continue to present day exceeding more than $1,200.

I have had  Bina treated for numerous upper respiratory infections, bacterial eye infections, ring worm, giardia and to keep her healthy she has been inoculated for typhoid, polio, tetanus, measles, mumps, rubella, and the list goes on.  Since she is 4, she has a tremendous amount of catching up to do and measles kill kids here in the Kathmandu Valley of Nepal.   I could not wait to vaccinate her in the U.S. using my medical insurance.

To get a visa for Bina and get home, we are required to submit evidence to USCIS- (United States Customs and Immigration Services) illustrating Bina qualifies under U.S. laws as an orphan.  Currently our file sits in the hands of USCIS under review. We are hopeful we will receive a fast response.
We have no way of knowing how long we will continue to wait for our file to be processed.

 I've had so  many friends and strangers offer a donation to our plight I put this blog together.   When people ask me how can I help, I have always requested that people please pray for us.  I believe in my heart Prayer will bring us home.

Bina and I are grateful for any donations or prayers we continue to receive and will hold you in our hearts for caring about us enough to read this blog and think of us.

6 comments:

  1. Dee this is just awful, I hope you get home soon.
    Love Karen & Gerry

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  2. DeeDee.... Sending love my sweet sister. Your daughter is beautiful.... I know you will be home soon with your new family.

    Bobbie

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  3. I love you my friend. My prayers and love to you and Bina always.

    Love,

    Michele

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  4. Sending love to you and Bina, and prayers that you can come home safetly soon.
    Love, Angie

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  5. Im sending love and prayers...and doing kinesiology...You are a beautiful pair! You are lucky to have each other!
    Love,
    Catherine

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  6. DeeDee,

    So glad I found this site...you and Bina are so adorable and I am very happy for you despite the circumstances. Enjoy being a mommy and know many people are praying for your speedy and safe return home!!!

    Merry Christmas my love!

    Danielle Burnham xoxo

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